As much as you may want to cope by yourself, the first port of call should probably be a close friend or family member. If you ask for a loan rather than a handout and show you’re willing to get your finances in order after this, they may help you out. Check out our article on borrowing from friends for more advice.
Unfortunately, you can’t just stop paying your landlord if you don’t have the money. If you are upfront about your cash flow problems â especially if they are short-term â they may be more understanding about giving you extra time to pay the rent. Try to approach the conversation armed with some ideas or a realistic payment plan to get your rent fully paid up â this will show youâre keen to find a solution and may mean your landlord will deal with you more sympathetically.
Make sure you have a roof over your head and food to eat and then work out what else you can afford. For example, nights out or clothes. A debt charity, such as National Debtline, will help you prioritise your expenditure and get you back on track.
They are legally bound to help you find a way to pay off your debts.
This may involve sending your creditors a proposed repayment scheme a debt charity will be able to help you draw one up. If one of the reasons you’re avoiding looking at your stack of bills is a fear of being taken to court, don’t panic. Even if you DO get a court order, the court will only order you to make repayments that you will be able to afford.
While an Access payment can take some time to come through, once they have accepted your claim you can tell your landlord, which will hopefully get them off your case for a while. Most universities also have an accommodation fund for those of you whose rent is higher than average. Ask your academic registry for more information.
You may be entitled to some form of housing benefit, or Local Housing Allowance if you rent from a private landlord (unfortunately this is not available if you live with a close relative or you are a full-time student, unless you’re disabled or have children).
If you’re entitled to some of the above funds you could go to your bank with written confirmation and they may give you a temporary overdraft extension to cover you until they arrive. They’re more likely to be flexible if you’re upfront and honest.
Looking after yourself is so important, especially in stressful situations where you need some control. Try to stay calm and work out a plan of action. If you’re struggling under the pressure then speak to a trusted friend or call the Money for Life helpline on 0808 801 0666 for support and advice.
If you’re only a little behind, your mates may offer to help you out but making a habit of this is a sign you need to tackle your money problems head on.
By getting your finances in some sort of order you’re likely to feel a great weight lifted off your chest. This doesn’t mean you need to have miraculously cleared all debts within the month, it may take quite a while to pay it all off.
To keep the sense of control you’ve fought so hard for, look over your budget, set some goals (eg, I will keep my phone bill under £20 a month from now on) and put together a plan of how to tackle your money problems over a longer period.
Defaults and delays in payments with everything from council tax to credit cards will be noted on what’s called your credit file. When you apply for new credit, lenders use the information held to assess how reliable you are as a payee. That’s why it’s important to protect your credit file by making bill payments in full and on time. Failure to pay could make it hard to borrow in the future, get a credit card or open a bank account.
While you should always pay your way with bills in a house-share situation, it’s important to realise that failure to pay will only affect you personally if the bill/bills are in your name.